One of the most frequent comments about my hair makeover is "Oh my God, weren't you scared??". Of course I was. But I strongly decided to fight my fears! Then and now!
From the first moment I started to have the last word in hair salon and not my mom, I was one of those girls who freaked out over two centimeters of hair. Because they always cut my hair more then I said (probably 3 cm), I started to cut it myself. When I wanted and, the most important, how much I wanted. And I was more than satisfied! Until...
I started this blog a year ago as a result of years of watching other girls doing their thing. I wanted to be a part of the world, too. I had something to say, too. But when you "get in", you realize how hard it is to be noticed. How hard it is to be eye catching!
My style changing moments came naturally and slowly. I always saw fashion as a fun game, and moving from Bosnia to Vienna, I got more room to play.
At first colors. Then color blocking. Prints. Then prints mixing. I had fun, but something was missing. I always had the feeling I have to change something.
"The hair" - it clicked. It was always let down the same way, sometimes up in a bun. No fun. No character. It had to go.
I browsed through internet for cool short hairstyles for months. Months! I even found few programs where you upload your picture and choose various hairstyles. I needed more opinions, so I asked friends and family. And most important, I listened to my gut. It was the right decision.
I cut my hair in April last year. I truly believe that is my second birthday! I felt free. I got new energy. I was newborn.
You don't have to open your closet, throw your clothes out and buy a new one. Step by step. Get out of your comfort zone. Too much black? Buy a colorful scarf. Jacket or shoes, if your braver. Always wearing dresses? Try them with studded ankle boots and give some toughness to that sweet girl. Try color shampoos. Cut your bangs.
Wake up!
Play around, boys and girls. Try new things. Have fun! Life is too short to play it safe!
Jedan od najcescih komentara vezanih za moju promjenu frizure je "Oh Boze, zar te nije bilo strah??". Naravno da me bilo strah. Ali sam cvrsto odlucila uhvatiti se u kostac sa svojim strahovima. Tada i sada.
Od trenutka kad sam ja imala posljednju rijec u odluci o mojoj frizuri, a ne moja mama, bila sam onaj tip djevojke koji ludi zbog 2 centimetra vise koje je zlocesta frizerka skinula. Bas zato jer su me uvijek sisali vise nego sto sam htjela (vjerovatno 3 cm), uzela sam makaze u svoje ruke. Kad sam htjela i, sto je najvaznije, koliko sam htjela. Napokon sretna! Dok...
Pocela sam pisati ovaj blog kao rezultat dugogodisnjeg pracenja istih. Javila se zelja da i ja budem dio tog svijeta. I ja sam imala nesto da kazem. Ali kad "udjes", shvatis koliko je tesko biti primjecen. Koliko je tesko biti upecatljiv!
Promjene u mom stilu su dosle spontano i polako. Moda mi je uvijek bila igra, a selidbom iz Zenice u Bec samo sam dobila jos vise prostora za zabavu.
Prvo boje. Pa njihovo mijesanje. Uzorci. Pa njihovo mijesanje. Zabavljala sam se, ali je uvijek postojao osjecaj da nesto nedostaje. Osjecaj da moram nesto promijeniti.
"Kosa" - kliknulo mi je. Uvijek je bila pustena na isti dosadni nacin. Nekada zavezana u pundju. Bez zabave. Bez karaktera. Morala je ici.
Mjesecima sam pretrazivala internet za cool kratkim frizurama. Mjesecima! Cak sam nasla i program u koji ubacis svoju sliku, pa biras razlicite frizure. Trebala sam jos misljenja, pa sam pitala porodicu i prijatelje. Ali sto je najvaznije, slusala sam instinkt. Bila je prava odluka.
Osisala sam se u aprilu prosle godine. Cvrsto vjerujem da mi je to bio drugi rodjendan. Osjetila sam se slobodnom. Dobila sam novu energiju. Bila sam ponovo rodjena.
Ne trebate otvoriti svoj ormar, baciti staru odjecu i kupiti novu. Korak po korak. Izadjite iz svoje sigurne zone. Previse crnog? Kupite sal u boji. Cipele ili jaknu, ako ste hrabriji. Uvijek nosite haljine? Probajte sa gleznjericama sa nitnama i dajte malo "drskosti" toj slatkoj djevojcici. Probajte sampone u boji. Osisajte siske.
Probudite se!
Igrajte se! Probajte nove stvari, zabavljajte se!
Zivot je prekratak da bi se igralo na sigurno.
post ti je stvarno super! I mislim da ti je predobra ta kratka kosa! I ja mislim napraviti slican post jer sam sve frizure isprobala ( nije bilo videno na blogu) i mislim da ova dugacka kosa nije za mene. Ali totalno imas pravo. treba se sa kosom igrati i naci svoju frizuru. :*
ReplyDeletei love your short hair !! much more than long dear ♥♥ you look totally incredible :)
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This post is so me!!!! I have made several changes in my hair through years too. I used to had them like yours now but in a red colour....now I let them grow again in my natural colour!!! However I think that a hair change can definitely upgrade your mood, your style and makes you feel better!! Don't be afraid to make changes girls ;)
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lijepo receno! :D
ReplyDeleteThis is such an inspiring post. I'm thinking about cutting my locks myself, but it will probably happen only after my wedding next year. Anyway you look amazingly beautiful with short hair, it fits your style much better. XOOX
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I totally agree with you girl!!! Great post! And by the way: you look 1.000 times better with short hair!
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Divna si!!! Ja se volim igrati i mijenjati frizure i boje kose, a valjda mi zato najčešće sve bude OK :)
ReplyDeleteTakođe se uvijek osjećam dobro & volim taj totalni refresh koji mi donese nova farba za kosu ili moj novi asimetrični bob!!!
Un post genial, estas increíble con el pelo corto!!!
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Un corte moderno , chic y favorece muchísimo, bien hecho!! Besos,ana.
ReplyDeletewow what a change! I definitely love your short curly hair!!! although you look beautiful anyway!!! ;) xo, Alma
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I love the colour on you - not everyone can carry off black. I love the shorter wavy styles - they give you a sexy edge!
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Every time I cut my hair short I find myself regretting it... but fashion is all about fun and finding what works for you, which this short style very clearly does! I don't think you've ever looked more beautiful than with your short hair :)
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It's true what you said. You have to play around, dare to be you. And you look amazing with short hair, I think you've got the face for it - so why hide it underneath those long hair. Great :).
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Najinspirativniji post ikad,a ne moram ni govoriti da sam i ja osoba koja se isto tako poigrava sa kosom i cjelokupnim imidzom,you go girl!
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Post je prekrasan, i zaista imas frizuru koja ti idealno pristaje ;)
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You're right, the short hair suits you well, and it gives you simply that bit of extra!
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Your features suit short and long hair honey, xoxo.
ReplyDeleteI also like your long hair! :D
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i like your short hair!!!
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Pero que bien te queda cada corte y peinado!! estas guapisima. Yo creo que me cortare el pelo esta semana!! a lo LOCO!! jajajaj un beso.
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you look absolutely GORGEOUS with the short hair! I love you with this haircut!!!!
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you look in every hair beautiful, but in short hair you look wild :D do you know what i think ? :)
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i follow you :)
Great post. I love your new hair style.
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Potpuno si mi druga sa osoba sa kratkom kosom! :DDD
ReplyDeleteIm glad you did it, it shows off how gorgeous your face is! And it is really hard to stand out on here but you definitely do not just because of your hair but also because of your amazing style :)
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It was really a pleasure reading this article! Maybe as you know, I'm a quite new blogger and I can find myself in some of your words, too ;-) ... I'm so in love with fashion and it's my passion playing with it, trying new things, being inspired and share my style with "the world". Would be happy staying in contact with you! Kisses from Katja. PS.: I prefer your short hair - it makes yourself more unique!
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I love this post! & I really like your collage and I have to say best desicion ever that you have cuted your hairs. I mean I like the photo with the bun but I love your short hairs. It is more you and more unique! I wish I would have the guts to cut my hairs :) XO
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el corto te queda guay pero el largo tambien....no sabria con cual quedarme jejeje
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This is so inspiring! I keep thinking about cutting off my hair but I still haven't quite got the confidence! Yours looks amazing though x
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You look amazing with your hair cut short! Great pictures!
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Already recognized that you have gone a long way to this haircut and your person! I love the text it motivates me in a very inspiring way and I just started to think about what I could change!
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You look even prettier with the short hair because it doesn't hide your features.
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Love your short hair!
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Jadore le noeud :)
ReplyDeleteThere is something very chic about short hair, and your style is terrific as it can be worn in so many different ways, love it!It's also a little cheeky!
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love both your hair styles but the short one really suits you so well:)
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Kratka kosa ti odlicno stoji i vise mi ide uz citav tvoj stil, svaka cast na hrabrosti.
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Tvoja sadašnja frizura je fenomenalna i zaista ti savršeno stoji!!! ;)
ReplyDeleteThat's a good lesson of how to take one's hair-life in hand !
ReplyDeleteAnd the sartorial ways will follow !
Hi dear, your different hairstyles are so great, its inspiring to see that you're brave enough to experiment with unique chic styles. You look fantastic in all.
ReplyDeletei love all the different hair style, but i think more fabulous in short hair
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I like your short hair! :)
ReplyDeletei like all really but short better i think)
ReplyDeleteMejor con el pelo corto monisisma.
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Short hairs seems to be made for you. Gives you a totally different attitude. But it´s fantastic.
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Interesting... I was looking at your long hair comparing with the short , and I really like your short hair style, you look completely different, with this short hair you stand out, it is hard NOT to notice you!
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Uu, promijenila si ti dosta njih. Ljepše ti pristaje kraća frizura, lice ti više dolazi do izražaja :D
ReplyDeleteI started to cut it myself too for several years so I totally understand you.
ReplyDeleteThe short hair really suits you.
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auu,koja razlika..totalno si druga zena s kratkom kosom...i po mom misljenju,šišanje je bilo pun pogodak...:)
ReplyDeletekratka kosa je <3
ReplyDeletetebi stoji izmisljeno, neki (citaj ja) bi izgledali manuto ;-)
sampon u boji? me like... mislis na color sampone il je neki spesl" izbacen?
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Da, na njih sam mislila;-)
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Ti imas tako divnu kosu <3 :)
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I really like how you did changed. Great day.
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Great post babe! Love all that you had to say and you're definitely rocking that short do! Love it on you! :)
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You are one brave women hehe.. the short hair suits you .
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You´re an alround talent with your hairs :)
ReplyDeleteBut I prefer the short cuts: they unterline that you´re a very special person - and I like it so much.
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we're soooo in love with your short haircut:)
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lots and lots of love
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Mašna. <3
ReplyDeleteI never really changed my hairstyle and always had more or less long hair.
ReplyDeleteYou look good with long hair but you look amazing, unique and energetic with short hair!!!
No wonder you never regretted having it cut!
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You are so so so right, honey! People should go outside their comfort zone and try more (and I am including myself here, I too should experiment more)! Oh, and you look gorgeous with the short hair, but I guess I've told you this before ;))
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Tačno znam o čemu pričaš, ja kad sam se ošišala na kratko prije jedno 6 godina, kao da sam se rodila, i sad ne mogu zamisliti da je pustim da raste, mislim nije nikada ni bila toliko duga, ali da mi prekrije uši, to bi već bila tragedija :*
ReplyDeleteYou pull off a cropped do so effortlessly. xx /Madison
ReplyDeleteOva kratka frizura savrseno ide uz tvoj stil sada..Ne bih te mogla zamisliti sa dugom kosom.Meni se svidja al nikad se ne bi usudila da ja to uradim :)))
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I think you look good with all your different styles!
ReplyDeleteAnd thanks so much for commenting!
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I really love your hair now, although I have to say, it looks fabulous with that bow! xx
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I really like short hair on you. Great advice on stepping out of your comfort zone!
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I love your words and I do love your hair and your style!! Kisses pretty!!
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I think you look amazing with short hair! It suits you so well!
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you're so lucky that you're able to rock all different hair styles :)
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OMG!! i wish i could rock that short hair!! u look amazing
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WOW that takes some major courage! Nevertheless it looks fantastic!
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love the shot hair more then the long, but both looks beautiful !!
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Savršen post! Skupljam hrabrost za isto. Ne zbog bloga toliko, koliko zbog te energije koju pišeš...hvala ti što si mi inspiracija! <3
ReplyDeletePonovo sam se zaljubila u ovaj blog, ako je ikako moguće :).. predivan post, a kratka kosa je zaista izvukla ono nešto posebno u tebi <3..
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Sin duda la camara parece haber nacido para ti.En tus fotos se conjugan muchos elementos:Belleza,sensualidad,elegancia y buen gusto.Un abrazo.
ReplyDeleteHello dear! As always, i am very inspired by your post. This time if you will have time i would like to ask you one thing.. in one post i remember you mentioned that 2012 year was special because of many things, including loosing weight. Just curious, maybe you can advise, for example what were the main rules, you had to follow in order to loose weight.
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I started exercising and eating healthy, no other way honey!;-)
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Wow, what a change. It looks so great. Actually your short hair was the first thing I recognized when I found your blog. "Wow, she has short hair and it looks fantastic." This makes you totally a special type. I love that. I'm always afraid when it comes to my hair. I cut it last year in April, too, after wearing long hair for more then 10 years. I have a new appointment this week...well, let's see if I'm brave :-).
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you look so much better with short hair!
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